A female TikToker identified as Lopez has cried out, narrating how the Member of Parliament for Old Tafo, Ekow Vincent Assafuah, was in her DM and even asked her to spend the night with him.
According to the TikToker, Vincent Assafuah texted him less than 5 months ago, and she immediately fell for him after going through his videos and photos on Instagram.
She revealed that she went on a date with him, and she asked the Old Tafo MP whether he had a wife or kids and later disclosed that the MP asked her to spend the night with him, which she refused due to her Christian background.
Lopez stressed that she is pained to know Vincent Assafuah is now married, as she thought she had finally found someone to settle down with after immediately falling for him.
Speaking in a viral self-recorded video, the Ghanaian lady alleged, “This one was in my DM not long ago, I will say less than 5 months, and I come to TikTok today, and I realise that this man is married to another woman.
He was in my DMs. This is the evidence: when he met me, I had been complaining of being single for a long time, so he sent me a DM on Instagram. In my head, I was like, finally, I am coming to know a guy, probably it will lead to marriage.
He texted me in a way that showed he was interested in me as a woman, and I was also interested in him.
I know I am a comic content creator, most of the time I come here to crack jokes, I don’t really talk about my personal life, but this thing has pained me”.
She further added, “I went on a date with this man, I asked him, ‘ Are you married? ‘ He said no, I asked him, ‘Do you have kids he said no’. Sometimes, if you DM a lady and she replies, it does not mean she is a fool. Imagine if I had continued a serious intimate relationship with this man”.
We went on a date, we had beautiful conversations, he said he wanted to answer an urgent call, so he left me at the restaurant, and he went to stand outside for a long time. So, I was inside the place eating, and when I finished, he texted me asking about the bill. I said the bill was 500 cedis.
On that day, I thought I had gotten a man that I would be marrying soon, I liked him dead serious. Right now, I have blocked him because when we went on the first date, he was like spend a night with me and I was raised in a Christian background”
Her comments follow the buzz that was generated over the weekend when news broke that Vincent Asafuah held a private traditional marriage ceremony over the weekend with his partner, Dr Charis.
The traditional marriage ceremony was attended by close family and friends, and quickly sparked conversations online.
Meanwhile, a video of Dr Charis, the newlywed wife of the Member of Parliament for the Old Tafo Constituency, Vincent Ekow Assafuah, has surfaced online.
Speaking in the video, she stated, “I have changed, so I don’t make videos just anyhow, but I am pained because it is only in Ghana that you will watch your own marriage on TikTok. I am moving from blogger to blogger looking for my own wedding video to watch, even though it was supposed to be a private ceremony,” she said.
“I am in my grace period because from next week, my attitude and the way I speak must change since I am now a big man’s wife, so I have to appear more demure. But for now, I want to say whatever I want.
“When my father asked me if they should accept the drinks, I almost told them that I wanted to go and think about it. Those of you who say that if your family doesn’t accept the drinks, something bad will happen to you, you are full of wonders,” she added.
Watch the video below:
Vincent Assafuah was in my DM 5 months ago. We went on a date and he asked me to spend the night which I didn’t. I come to TikTok to find out that he’s married to another woman.
— WithAlvin 🇬🇭 (@withAlvin__) March 10, 2026
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