A pained female TikToker identified as Lopez has lamented about how Member of Parliament for Old Tafo, Ekow Vincent Assafuah, was in her DM and even asked her to spend the night with him.
According to the TikToker, from her own calculations, Vincent Assafuah was texting her while he was planning his wedding with another woman.
The TikToker claimed Vincent Assafuah ghosted her because she did not agree to spend the night with him on their first date.
Speaking in a viral self-recorded video, the Ghanaian TikToker alleged, “Looking at the time range, this man texted me. I am sure he was literally planning his wedding with this lady. Because this chat is not more than 5 months old, so calculating the time range he texted me while he was in the process of arranging a marriage with this lady.
After we met, days later, I have been checking up on this man. I have been calling him because I am interested. I was calling, sending DMs, it got to a point where he was not replying to my message, so I sent him this last message: if he knows this is what he was going to do, why did he take my number to ghost me for no reason?
You said you liked me, and I liked you as well. I am giving you my time and effort, but you are online and ghosting me. I was physically drained, so I had to block him after I blocked him, just now I have seen he has gotten married. So this man just wanted to fu*k me.
Because I didn’t give in to spending the night with him on a first date, he ghosted me. I’m a grown woman, all I want is to get married and have kids… that’s my wish this year”.
She further narrated how the Old Tafo MP DM her.
According to the TikToker, Vincent Assafuah texted him less than 5 months ago, and she immediately fell for him after going through his videos and photos on Instagram.
She revealed that she went on a date with him, and she asked the Old Tafo MP whether he had a wife or kids and later disclosed that the MP asked her to spend the night with him, which she refused due to her Christian background.
Lopez stressed that she is pained to know Vincent Assafuah is now married, as she thought she had finally found someone to settle down with after immediately falling for him.
She added, “This one was in my DM not long ago, I will say less than 5 months, and I come to TikTok today, and I realise that this man is married to another woman.
He was in my DMs. This is the evidence: when he met me, I had been complaining of being single for a long time, so he sent me a DM on Instagram. In my head, I was like, finally, I am coming to know a guy, probably it will lead to marriage.
He texted me in a way that showed he was interested in me as a woman, and I was also interested in him.
I know I am a comic content creator, most of the time I come here to crack jokes, I don’t really talk about my personal life, but this thing has pained me”.
She further added, “I went on a date with this man, I asked him, ‘ Are you married? ‘ He said no, I asked him, ‘Do you have kids he said no’. Sometimes, if you DM a lady and she replies, it does not mean she is a fool. Imagine if I had continued a serious intimate relationship with this man”.
We went on a date, we had beautiful conversations, he said he wanted to answer an urgent call, so he left me at the restaurant, and he went to stand outside for a long time. So, I was inside the place eating, and when I finished, he texted me asking about the bill. I said the bill was 500 cedis.
On that day, I thought I had gotten a man that I would be marrying soon, I liked him dead serious. Right now, I have blocked him because when we went on the first date, he was like spend a night with me and I was raised in a Christian background”
Her comments follow the buzz that was generated over the weekend when news broke that Vincent Asafuah held a private traditional marriage ceremony over the weekend with his partner, Dr Charis.
The traditional marriage ceremony was attended by close family and friends, and quickly sparked conversations online.
Watch the video below:
“When he texted me, I’m sure he was also planning a wedding with the other lady” — Lopez drops part 2!
— WithAlvin 🇬🇭 (@withAlvin__) March 10, 2026
“I’m a grown woman, all I want is get married and have kids… that’s my wish this year”
Sister, I feel you, but like Wendy Shay said “it’s too late”. After all, POM (plenty… https://t.co/kqVY4ZqoGV pic.twitter.com/hQh7KlhMTB